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Dear Editor:
April of each year brings together two related awareness campaigns: Victims of Crime and Sexual Assault.
The theme for the 2017 Victims of Crime campaign is "Strength, Resilience, Justice." For Sexual Assault month it is "Engaging New Voices."
Though these two campaigns are separate, their themes intertwine into a unified message: Victims cannot receive justice without the strength of the community. Victims cannot recover without our voices joining them in calling for justice. In other words, it takes all of us, working together, to bring about justice, healing, and change.
This is especially true of victims of sexual assault. While victim-blaming has waned in the last few years, it is still the norm for many people who consider the causes of sexual assault. Victim-blaming keeps victims from coming forward. Victim-blaming allows perpetrators to avoid arrest and prosecution. As a community, we need to challenge those who blame victims for sexual assaults. If there were no victim-blaming there would be more justice for victims of sexual assault.
Victims of sexual assault also need our help to reach the point where they can identify as a survivor of sexual assault. A better understanding of how trauma affects a person will help us. Trauma-informed counselors provide guidance along this healing path. Victims of trauma can overcome and recover, but it takes a lot of work and support from understanding family and friends. Will you be the voice of encouragement and support to the victims around you?
A shift in public opinion is also needed in addressing the problem of sexual assault. You can help make a difference in your circle of friends and officemates by challenging beliefs that uphold sexual stereotypes, victim-blaming, and excuses for sexual assault. A good way to begin is by supporting the "No More" Campaign.
Dottie Kane is making her way around the county encouraging community members to post a "No More" emblem on their car window. This teal-colored circle is meant to engage conversation about issues of domestic violence and sexual assault. No More blaming the victim. No More saying, "He was just sowing some wild oats." No More, "She asked for it!"
Dottie would like the opportunity to speak to groups about the "No More" Campaign. Dottie may be reached at the Catholic Charities Office by calling 330-420-0845. Leave a message.
Become part of the solution. Decide what type of community you want to live in: One that upholds justice, or one that makes excuses. Work toward becoming that community by using influence. Together we can engage our voices and bring about strength, resilience, and healing.
Nickie Ostick
Lisbon